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Do you (or does an individual you know)... --Apologize often or for stuff you are usually not liable for? --Get preoccupied with what people reflect on you? --Become unsatisfied whilst your companion is not satisfied? --Feel frightened or fretful so frequently it sort of feels common? --Often no longer comprehend what you will want? --Constantly second-guess your self? persistent Niceness impacts multitudes, inflicting critical anxiousness and melancholy, crippling vanity, and undermining and destroying relationships frightened to delight unearths the first mental reason behind continual Niceness--Anxious Attachment. frightened Attachment drives the great individual to house, acquiesce and keep away from clash. great humans take what they are given instead of requesting what they wish, usually sacrificing dating, careers and their very own integrity. fearful to thrill provides seven robust practices designed to result in: resilient vanity; a happier and calmer emotional lifestyles; a reality-based optimism for the long run; pleasurable intercourse; and gratifying relationships.

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Do you (or does an individual you know). .. --Apologize usually or for belongings you are usually not accountable for? --Get preoccupied with what people reflect on you? --Become unsatisfied whilst your associate is not satisfied? --Feel apprehensive or fretful so frequently it kind of feels basic? --Often no longer understand what you will have? --Constantly second-guess your self?

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DUAL CAREERS Economic pressures often require both parents in a family to work outside the home. As a result, it is very common for both parents to be away from their children during a significant portion of the day or night. It is easy to see how this causes erratic decision-making, time pressures, miscommunication, and exhaustion, exacerbating a family’s overall level of stress. Here’s a sample of the difficulties of dual-career parenting: • Lack of consistency • A pervading sense of frantic unease • Tag-team decision making (no parenting game plan because there is no time to communicate) anxious_internals 30 12/11/07 11:23 AM Page 30 ANXIOUS TO PLEASE • Trading ethics for expediency • Lack of patience SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES The statistics vary—40 percent to 50 percent of marriages taking place right now will end in divorce—but we only need to look at ourselves, our friends, and our families to know that many children are being raised in single-parent families.

The golden bars in this cage include: • Dependence: Shannon is financially dependent on Peter, more so if she goes back to school or has a child. • Isolation: Shannon’s time has progressively become monopolized by the relationship, diminishing her connections to friends and family. • Indebtedness/Obligation: Peter’s “generous” and continual sacrifices leave Shannon feeling indebted to him, and their unwritten contract is that she owes him her devotion in return. • Guilt/Shame: Peter’s defensiveness and chronic niceness enforce the stance that he is never to be blamed for anything; Shannon feels guilty if she gets mad at him, and feels like a complete bitch if she secretly imagines leaving the marriage.

If we are unaware of how society is affecting us, we can do nothing about it. ”—is the beginning of transformation. There is one more stop along the way before we get to the 7 Practices. We need to examine the hidden thought processes and feelings of Nice People in romantic relationships. anxious_internals 12/11/07 11:23 AM Page 43 yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes 3 Pedestals, Altars, and Gilded Cages Pedestal: A platform for an object of worship Altar: A place of sacrifice Gilded Cage: A prison designed to keep its prize confined through the use of seduction and emotional entrapment I don’t have relationships; I take hostages.

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